logo

Harbingers’ Magazine is a weekly online current affairs magazine written and edited by teenagers worldwide.

harbinger | noun

har·​bin·​ger | \ˈhär-bən-jər\

1. one that initiates a major change: a person or thing that originates or helps open up a new activity, method, or technology; pioneer.

2. something that foreshadows a future event : something that gives an anticipatory sign of what is to come.

cookie_image

We and our partners may store and access personal data such as cookies, device identifiers or other similar technologies on your device and process such data to personalise content and ads, provide social media features and analyse our traffic.

introduction image

Family wearing traditional Afghan dress.

Picture by: See Li | Picture Capital | Alamy

Article link copied.

Balancing tradition and personal freedom in today’s Afghanistan

author_bio
Malaika from the LEARN Journalism Club, Afghanistan

14-year-old Malaika from the Afghanistan Newsroom examines the place of tradition in a rapidly changing world

Afghanistan’s traditional values, deeply rooted in its culture, religion and social practices, serve as the foundation of its identity. These values, such as respect for elders, hospitality, family honour and community unity, have shaped Afghan society for centuries.

Core values such as resilience, loyalty, independence and compassion define Afghan society. These principles guide people through difficult times.

However, with a large and dynamic young population, Afghanistan faces the challenge of preserving these values while navigating a rapidly changing world.

The importance of family

Family is at the core of Afghan life. Loyalty to family often takes precedence over personal desires, creating a sense of collective responsibility. “Family comes first,” says *Mina, a university graduate.

*Saliha, a young Afghan student, explains that “respecting our elders is more than a rule – it’s a way of life. Elders in Afghan culture are considered the custodians of wisdom, and their advice is highly respected.”

Similarly, hospitality is ingrained in Afghan society, with guests treated as family. “Hospitality is in our blood. Even when we have little, we share with others,” says a community elder, underscoring the importance of generosity.

Challenges for Afghan youth

However, Afghanistan’s traditional values are increasingly at odds with modernisation, technology and globalisation. Young Afghans, who make up a large portion of the population – more than 43% of the population is under 14 – face conflicting pressures.

On one hand, there is a strong desire to maintain the customs that have defined Afghan society for generations. On the other, the pull toward personal freedom and modern opportunities creates tension.

Saliha highlights the challenge young Afghans face – balancing respect for tradition with the desire to carve out their own paths in a rapidly changing world. “Young people want change, but they also want to honour their heritage,” she says, adding that “sometimes, the younger generation feels unheard.”

“Our traditions teach us patience and resilience, but we also want the freedom to shape our own future,” explains Mina.

Strength through tradition

Despite such challenges, traditional Afghan values provide key benefits for young people. Principles such as honour and loyalty serve as moral compasses during crises, offering stability and identity in uncertain times. “Our traditions give us strength. They’ve helped us survive wars, displacement and hardship,” a university graduate reflects.

“Young people are the bridge between the old and the new,” says Saliha. “We have a responsibility to adapt, but we also carry the wisdom of our elders.” In a society in transition, traditions help young Afghans stay grounded while navigating modern life’s complexities.

The youth of Afghanistan will play a key role in the country’s future, and their ability to preserve cultural heritage while embracing change will shape the nation’s evolution. The enduring importance of family, honour and respect will continue to guide Afghanistan’s next generation.

* Names have been changed to protect identities

Written by:

author_bio

Malaika

Afghanistan

Contributor

LEARN Journalism Club

Illustration by Yuliia Muliar

Born in 2011, Malaika is currently studying journalism through the joint project between Harbingers’ Magazine and LEARN Afghan.

Her educational goal is to study business and build a career as a successful businesswoman. In her free time, Malaika enjoys reading books to expand her knowledge about the world of business. 

Malaika speaks Pashto, Urdu and English.

Due to security concerns the author’s image and surname have been omitted

Edited by:

author_bio

​​Sofia Vorobei

Culture Section Editor 2025

El Vergel, Spain

afghanistan newsroom

🌍 Join the World's Youngest Newsroom—Create a Free Account

Sign up to save your favourite articles, get personalised recommendations, and stay informed about stories that Gen Z worldwide actually care about. Plus, subscribe to our newsletter for the latest stories delivered straight to your inbox. 📲

Login/Register